Wednesday, October 14, 2009

I'm Still Here!

So, now that the first term is almost over, do you think it's time I talked about classes? Ugh, sorry. I tried to warn everyone that I'm awful at this. I'm taking two classes this term: Church History II and Greek. Each term is six weeks long, and we spend 8 hours a weekend in Church History and 2 hours in Greek.

Church history has been interesting! It's more interesting than I'd anticipated, we're covering Medieval religious movements to present day. Which yes, is a rather large chunk of time. It's not a ton of detail about anything, but it's a great overview of Christianity. You guys! A lot of stuff happened! We have two papers due each week, readings from three different books, and a book presentation. It's not TOO much work, but it does keep me busy!

Greek is... hard? Yeah. Hard. Funny looking letters! Weird words! Not used ever in the world except for suckers like me! I'll feel proud of myself when I can properly translate things, but for right now it's just kind of frustrating.

I've preached one Sunday and let worship another. I love the people of Sherwood UMC, they are very kind and welcoming. I preach again on the 25th of this month. It still makes me nervous - and when I led worship last Sunday I was convinced that I was going to forget the Lord's Prayer. I've also been roped into singing with the Praise Team, which is REALLY not inside my comfort zone. Eek!

Back to homework now, I'll try to update again before the end of next term. (I'm taking Greek and History of Spirituality. Fun fun!)

Contest

So, every year about this time, the blog Tomato Nation raises money for Donors Choose. Donors
Choose is AWESOME. Teachers submit projects they need funding for - it ranges from ping pong tables to pens/pencils (Which, come ON! We should be doing better for our kids) and then awesome people like us help fund. Anyway, if you read through her blog entry, you get all the deets. It makes a fantastic Christmas present! (Or, you know, my birthday IS coming up.)

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Sunday, September 6, 2009

His Cup Runneth Over

Today is not a good day to have my windshield wiper break. Luckily, it's only the passenger side wiper, but still. I actually vow not to talk about weather very often - it will always be the same whine about how I really don't like rain- but the Oregon weather has begun. We've had a few sprinkles here and there before, but today is the first day since I've moved back that we've had the relentless downpour and wind. Ick. It's supposed to still be summer!!

Service this morning was interesting. Our normal pianist, who is wonderful, was gone. The girl subbing in didn't have the music/didn't know the music. So that was fun. Luckily everyone is really good at just rolling with things so I don't think we'll have anyone leaving the church over it. The sermon was great, though! The verse was Mark 7:24-30

24From there he set out and went away to the region of Tyre. He entered a house and did not want anyone to know he was there. Yet he could not escape notice, 25but a woman whose little daughter had an unclean spirit immediately heard about him, and she came and bowed down at his feet. 26Now the woman was a Gentile, of Syrophoenician origin. She begged him to cast the demon out of her daughter. 27He said to her, “Let the children be fed first, for it is not fair to take the children’s food and throw it to the dogs.” 28But she answered him, “Sir, even the dogs under the table eat the children’s crumbs.” 29Then he said to her, “For saying that, you may go – the demon has left your daughter.” 30So she went home, found the child lying on the bed, and the demon gone.

I don't think I've every really studied this verse before. Kirk's explanation was really fascinating. Jesus was initially telling her that his miracles were only for "The Chosen People," God's children. She countered that there was enough love and grace for the scraps to nourish everyone, regardless of where they fit. And then he healed her daughter and she moved on. It never says that she became Jewish, or a Jesus follower at all. I like that part. It's not really important whether she followed particular rules, there was enough grace spilling over for her. I feel like people get really bogged down in being not just Christian, but being the right denomination of Christian who uses the right translation of the Bible. This would seem to suggest that it doesn't really matter, God's love spills over for everyone.

Classes don't even start until Friday and I already have a paper to write! For Church History we have to do weekly 3-4 page papers that summarize a theme of the reading. It shouldn't be too awful, but I'm still a little intimidated. But I got my books, new pens and notebooks, and a new backpack this weekend! It's very exciting, even at my old age, to get new school supplies.

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Courage


The Rev. David Weekley told the congregation of Epworth United Methodist Church a secret Sunday that he'd kept for 27 years: Almost a decade before his ordination journey began in 1982, he'd undergone counseling and several surgeries and became a transgender man.

Ordained an elder in 1984, he said he vowed to become "the best pastor" he could possibly be. He told few people about his past. But recently he was inspired by Japanese-Americans in his congregation who told their stories of internment during World War II and the healing they had experienced.

"I am a man in some ways different from other men," he said. "But most people are different from other people in some way. And God still loves us."

After his sermon, the Rev. Bonnie Parr Philipson, metropolitan district superintendent of the United Methodist Church, affirmed to the congregation that Weekley's status within the church did not change with his revelation. She read a statement from Bishop Robert T. Hoshibata, leader of the Oregon-Idaho Methodist conference.

Weekley "is choosing now to share this earlier part of his life journey honestly and openly," Hoshibata wrote. "This decision does not, in any way, change his faith or his commitment to the ministry to which he was ordained, nor does it change his status as an elder in good standing. I prayerfully ask that his congregation, his colleagues and the United Methodist Church continue to uphold him and his family at this time."

"The United Methodist book of discipline does not speak to transgender as an impediment to ordination," said Greg Nelson, director of communications for the United Methodist Church in Oregon and Idaho

Hopefully it is not horribly shocking to anyone that I fully support the rights of ALL people to be ordained in the United Methodist Church. (Or members of, or married in for that matter.) What I always say is that God's call to ministry, for me, was very unmistakable. My own head can get in the way, but God's call is still very clear. So, if I'd been born another way, I'd be suddenly be hearing it wrong? If anyone is crazy enough to want to do this job, then who are we to second guess that? So I applaud Rev. Weekley's courage in speaking out, and I'm grateful for the district superintendent and Bishop Hoshibata's support of him.

This church is just a few miles away from me. Portland is a pretty accepting community, so I think it's a great place for movements towards greater equality to start. But just in case there is crazy backlash, I have my picketing shoes ready.

Monday, August 31, 2009

It Begins!

I have safely moved to Oregon! I wouldn't say I'm settled in my apartment, but I'm getting there. It feels good to be "home" again, I've missed my friends here a lot.

I started an internship with Sherwood United Methodist Church. They are an awesome group of people and so very brave to take on a student minister. I'll be preaching throughout the year and helping to plan worship, small groups, and whatever else they ask of me. It'll be so nice to work with Kirk again AND to have a chance to experience yet another side of church in action. My first sermon is actually on the 20th, and I'm meeting with our worship team to help plan the service on Wednesday. I love having the worship team meet weekly, it allows us to reflect on what needs changed, what works, and how the church can continue to grow. Plus, if I stick around, I get to listen to singing, which I love.

I start classes very soon. My first six week block of classes at NHTS are Greek and Church History. I'm not going to lie, I'm very nervous about Greek. I've never been awesome at languages. At least I already know the Greek alphabet! See, and everyone said being in a sorority wouldn't be useful.

I'm job hunting, which is a completely depressing process, but I have to just keep plugging away. While it would be nice if life was free, it turns out that's not so much true. It's one of those things that people keep saying will "work out." I'm sure they're right, but it doesn't make me stress less.

Leaving Idaho was hard, I miss my family, friends, and my youth group "kids" a lot, but I am just so ready to get it all started. Even the Greek.

Thursday, August 13, 2009

Nuts and Bolts

I get asked about the "stuff" behind becoming a minister a lot, so I thought I'd give a quick overview of what, exactly, I'm doing right now. In the United Methodist Church, we have a long and slightly complicated candidacy process. I'm not the only one who gets to decide if this call is the right one for me, it's up to me, God, and various other people along they way. (But really, mostly God.)

So, anyone who is even thinking they are interested in ministry gets to read a fun little book called "The Christian as Minister" which is a nice overview of the duties, areas, and questions around ministry. Then, at some point, in some order, they write the district superintendent of their little area of the world that they are interested in pursuing candidacy. The DS gets very excited about this new little recruit and assigns a mentor to help guide the process.

Janine is my mentor and she's amazing. She's actually a deacon, which is different than an elder in many very confusing but important ways. (In the Methodist church both deacons AND elders are ordained clergy. The head pastor at a church is almost always going to be an elder.) I am on the "elder track" for now, which means I want to be a pastor in a little country church in the middle of Idaho. Anyway, Janine and I met all summer and talked through an impressive workbook as required by the various boards that require these things. She's an invaluable source of knowledge and wisdom. It is SO helpful to have a mentor, because there are a million questions that I needed help sorting out. I ranged from the major "wait, what am I thinking" to the practical "how much vacation time will I be getting?" In talking through everything that got me to this point and all my ideas for the future, I realized that I am heading in to the right call. She will continue to be my mentor for awhile (well, she'll be my unofficial mentor forever, of course) as I continue through this process.

In about a month, I meet with the District Council on Ministries, who will decide if I can continue on to be a certified candidate in ministry. They aren't actually deciding that in a month, I'm just having a preliminary interview. I also get to take a ridiculously long pysch profile to make sure I'm fit, or something. I'm not entirely clear. Sometime this spring they'll vote officially to make me a certified candidate.

Assuming that goes well, I will continue on with seminary. Once I've graduated, I meet with the Board of Ordained Ministry at the conference level. They ask me fun questions, I write essays, it all sounds very exciting. If I meet with their approval, I am then ordaaaai....

Nope, not fully ordained yet. If I get through all that with flying colors, I become a probationary elder. I will be commissioned to a church somewhere in the conference. I believe probationary ministry is about three years. After that I am finally, really, fully, ordained as an elder in full connection.

Lost yet? I usually am. It seems long and complicated, but it also ensures that the right people are heading to the right directions. And really, just because it is a church doesn't mean it is not a crazy bureaucracy too.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Statement of Call

I had to create an official statement of call for my "'file." I thought it would be good to shart it here, give a little more insight into why I feel called to ministry. Here it is:

I grew up in the Methodist church, and I attribute my strongly rooted faith to the community that surrounded me and helped guide my path. I was very active in our local youth program and I also served on District Youth Ministries Council. I always felt called to lead and to create strong communities around me. I fell away from my involvement while in college, and I deeply felt the loss of my foundation. I wasn’t sure where my place in the church was, but I knew that God was calling me back. While working as the Director of Youth Ministries for Caldwell United Methodist Church, I first began to recognize and acknowledge my call to ministry. Through my work with the youth, I’ve grown more deeply in faith and have realized that God is calling me to serve others through ordained ministry.

And a little excerpt from my graduate school admission essay:

Within a week of settling back home, I was called by three people about a youth leadership position at Caldwell United Methodist. I got the impression that God was done softly calling for my attention, he was yelling. My passion for God and for seeing Christ work in others’ lives was re-ignited. I fell in love with the ministry, but still didn’t feel at home in the church. It was not a church that was there for me or my peers.
In the past year, I have finally allowed myself to realize I am being called to ministry. There are young people desperately searching for a church that speaks to them, that brings truth and faith back into their lives, and there are churches that want to reach out to the next generation of Christians but don’t know how to bridge that gap. The Methodist Church is so afraid of change that it is stifling the work of the Spirit. It is maintaining discriminatory practices while boldly claiming “Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Doors.” Church leaders officially vote on strong social issues, but those issues are not discussed in local congregations. I am called to ministry in the church, but not the church as it stands now. I am called to be part of a movement of young Christians who know that our church can be better. I am called to help inspire those who have lost the spark of Christ after 20 years of church meetings and endless petty debates. All of us suffer when a strong community is lost. We become stale and settled and safe. Christ never calls us to be just safe, so I want to reawaken the curious, tenacious questioner in all of them


Tuesday, July 28, 2009

The first step *check*

I heard, very unofficially, that I was accepted to graduate school two days before I left for church camp.  Very unofficially has never worked well for me, so I worked out an agreement with my mom.  She would email Taryn (a camp staffer and my favorite person on the earth) with good news, and Taryn would deliver that news to me.  It was on my mind all week, needing to know if this next step was going to happen, wondering if God's timeline for my life would ever match up with what I wanted.  I spoke about it a little on Thursday - the danger of really trusting God means that you don't always get what you want.  I had an evil little knot in my stomach by Friday afternoon.  What if I'd misunderstood the admissions counselor?  What if I'd been hearing God's call wrong all along?  What next?  I headed into Friday night campfire a little stressed.  It was a fun evening.  All the crazy skits and songs that you can pack into an hour being led by two fantastically energetic  high school seniors.  Half way through the night, Taryn tapped me on the shoulder.  "So, I got an email," she started.  Katey, another counselor, jumped up cheering, I burst into tears, and the campers didn't hear a thing.  I collected myself, told the counselors around me, told a few of "my kids" (the youth from Caldwell) and then the camp.  And what a perfect ending for the theme of the week!  I was so grateful for the opportunity to show that trusting in God does work out.  

So the official details:  I was accepted to Iliff School of Theology in Denver, CO.  I will be attending a consortium school, Northwest House of Theological Studies in Salem, OR for at least a year.  I am beyond excited to move back to Oregon, I've missed that state a whole lot.  I don't have a job, yet, but I'm just staying confident that it will come.

So now I feel like the journey is really beginning.  I've spent the last year officially discerning my call, but I was sure long before that.  Now it's on to school and life in ministry.  I would say I'm terrified, but I'm pretty sure that will come later.  Right now I'm just excited about moving forward and SO very grateful for everyone who has supported me while I try to figure it all out.  

I'm hoping to use this blog as a place to keep everyone updated on what I'm doing, reading, thinking, whatever.  My call is rooted in the community that has raised and loved me, so I am hoping to keep that community around me no matter where I go.